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A Night in the Life of a Girl In the Club

Majority of my male friends tell me they wish they had the “power” girls have when they go out to the bars and clubs. What does this mean? It means when they go out as a male they see all the females having a better time than them. Through their eyes the situation goes like this: girls get to cut in the front of the line, pay no cover charge, and wear anything they want. Once inside they get free drinks all night because guys offer to pay, they dance and do whatever they want, and they always get invited to the bottle service area for free. While half of this is true on a good night, the other 90% of nights at the bar don’t turn out that way.
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It’s All About the Car, or Is It?

Once again guys, I’m kind of singling you out on today’s blog, but it’s all in good fun and friendly advice! We got on the topic in the office of what kind of car a man needs to drive for a woman to consider dating him. Of course this is a materialistic question, but some girls are very picky about what they want, even when it comes to what their man is driving.
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Guys, This is For You

This blog is for all the guys out there. I want to give a girl’s perspective on how a guy should take care of himself and be presentable to the women in the world. Now the things I am about to discuss may seem too “girly” to you guys, but trust me if you take care of yourself in the right way you will be happier in the long run and your girl will love you for it!
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Eating Well Before the Club

You just bought the cutest dress to wear tonight and of course you don’t want to look like you struggled to squeeze into it! Before you head to the bar or club for the night it’s important to eat a good meal that will not leave you bloated with putrid breath. You want to feel the best as possible when you hit the town for the night not worrying that you should have bought that extra pack of gum or having to suck in your stomach the whole night.
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What is Your Motive for Going to the Club?

There are many different reasons why people go out to the bars and clubs; to hang out with friends, to get drunk, to meet new people, to flirt, or to dance. There is always some motive for stepping out of the house and into the nightlife scene. Of course friends will always be there to go out for a few drinks, but what about people that aren’t concerned with going out with their friends? What about the ones that have a specific purpose for themselves for heading to the club that night? Let me explain.
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Who is More Jealous: Men or Women?

Jealousy is an emotion that everyone experiences in his or her life at some point. Whether it is in a relationship, a competition at school or work, or within their family. It is a natural thing to feel at some points, but what about when it takes over how you feel about everything? What if your jealousy starts affecting your friends and family around you? How can it be controlled? Of course the type of jealousy a person feels varies from person to person and situation to situation. The big argument and debate is who gets more jealous in situations, men or women?
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The Dating Web

Our jobs are an essential part of our lives. It is an extension of who we are and it is the place where we make many important relationships. We do our best to balance our work life and our personal life but sometimes the two spheres spill into each other. Should our positions at work dictate our personal relationships? Is it ok to date someone who is not of the same career level as we are?
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Confessions from a Sugar Mamma

There was a time when wanting to be someone’s caretaker was the ideal position. I wanted to be the one who changed this man from who he was to who we both wanted him to be. It was one of those college relationships gone bad…really bad. We dated for three years and I went from adoring girlfriend to pseudo-mother figure. What went wrong?
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The Pick Up Line

"Do I know you? Cuz you look a lot like my next girlfriend..." "Are you a parking ticket? Because you've got fine written all over you..." and the classic, "If you were a booger I'd pick you first!" Yes pick up lines...women cringe to hear some of these lines but guess what, if you play your cards right, they will work! There's a trick to it that will get the conversation started without any eye rolls from that gorgeous woman at the bar.
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Exes and oh nos!

My own mentality is that ex’s are exs for a reason. They may have made you happy at one point in your life, but then you broke up, and for good reason. I will give you an example of one of my more eccentric relationships, where this ideology definitely applies. Him and I dated for eight months. It was one of those passionate love affairs that was bound to fizzle out.
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Gym time!

This morning was the first time in a month that I have gotten my tush out of bed and worked out. I tend to go through phases where I am obsessed with working out every day. But then the motivation slowly fades and gets harder and harder to get up. And then I stop working out all together. I've heard that this is generally the problem that people have. So here are some of my workout tricks that keeps me going to the gym:  
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The rating game

A lot of my guy friends label women: there’s the cute, hot, and “super” cute kind of girl. A cute girl is one that is pleasing to look upon, who is the sweet, girl next door. She is the girl a man will take home to mamma and have a long term relationship. Then there are girls that are hot. They are the ones that tend to turn heads at the bar, they are sex kitten bombshells. They are the ones guys drool over. And then there are “super cutes” which tends to be a California trend. They are the girls with perfect complexions as if they’ve been airbrushed. They look just like Barbie dolls and tend to act that way as well.
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Pet Peeves

Women are complex creatures. There are times when I don't even understand what I'm doing. But then there are times when I think women need to start acting more like men--cut the emotional nonsense and just get back to business! Here are the top 5 things that women do that needs to stop, stat!
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