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Online Dating vs The Club Scene

As a society, the United States is obsessed with dating. From television shows like the ABC Bachelor/Bachelorette series and Bravo’s Millionaire Matchmaker to the literally hundreds of online dating websites, it is a wonder anyone is single these days! Online dating has gained momentum in recent years and, according to a recent study, “1 out of 5 single people have dated someone they met on an online dating site.” However, there is some discord among singles on the relevance of online dating: those who oppose it argue it is an introverts tool in avoiding the outside world while others say it is a great supplement to enhance the chances of meeting that “special someone.” So which is better: getting out of the house to your local bar to scope out the scene or surfing the web for potential partners?
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Date night...

I have a constant war waging between me and a friend. He argues that chivalry is still alive, that men will throw down their jackets over a puddle to keep a woman from soggy shoes, that doors are always opened, and that men are here to protect the "fairer sex". He even went as far as sending me an article on chivalry still being alive. Now I plan on writing a full article for next month's magazine on this but I would love to vent for a moment. This article blamed women for the death of chivalry. Because we want to be treated as equals (god forbid!) and cherish our independence, we have single-handedly killed all the knights in shining armor.
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Shopping for men

Today, I spent a good hour searching for male models for the upcoming photo shoot. I went through hundreds of pages, looking at their portfolios and tried to figure out their personalities from their information and the choice of photo shoots they had made. Some made me wince as I surfed through picture after picture of boys in banana hammocks aka speedos (not a fan) and some were just plain odd. Not to say there is anything wrong with that, there's a time and place for everything.
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Independent Woman

My friend and I go on hikes every other day during the week. Its a chance to unwind after a long work day and catch up on each other's lives. Last monday we started talking about our love lives. She continues to wallow away her days in "its complicated's" while I continue on my never ending search for perfection. "You are so picky!" my friends always tell me, "Your standards are way too high!" Granted I refuse to kiss the toads to find my prince but I'm not exactly shooting for Colin Farrell here. I know what I want: a handsome, generous and honest man who knows how to treat a woman. His income is negotiable (I dont want my man making his living through "Do you want fries with that?"). His interests are key: if I were to type in an advertisement on Craigs List it would say, "Must love sports, animals,and cuddling." You would think this is easy to find...absolutely not.
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Romantic Fantasies.

We all know that men and women are very different; not only is communication near impossible but our ideas on romance are entirely different. If you take a guy to a football game for your anniversary and hand a beer to him before the bubbles have even settled to the bottom of the cup, he's in heaven. But women want to be wined and dined. They want flowers and gifts and loving words whispered in their diamond-twinkling ears. Is there an explanation for this difference of opinion?
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Sex Kitten Bombshells.

A lot of my guy friends label women: there’s the cute, hot, and “super” cute kind of girl. A cute girl is one that is pleasing to look upon, who is the sweet, girl next door. She is the girl a man will take home to mamma and have a long term relationship. Then there are girls that are hot. They are the ones that tend to turn heads at the bar, they are sex kitten bombshells. They are the ones guys drool over. And then there are “super cutes” which tends to be a California trend. They are the girls with perfect complexions as if they’ve been airbrushed. They look just like Barbie dolls and tend to act that way as well.
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Speak your mind, even if your voice shakes.

I think we can all agree that one of the first lessons we are taught is to tell the truth; that the truth is good no matter what. We are taught to use our voices and speak our minds. We are taught that our opinions should be voiced and we should never hold back. However, we are taught that if we have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all. I believe that our voices are one of the most powerful weapons we have. Once we fire our opinion, we can not take it back. Once released, it hits the mind of others and remains there forever. I agree that if you have nothing nice to say you probably shouldn't say it.
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5 Hot Outfit Options for a First Date

Figuring out your first date outfit can be stressful. You want to snag the partner of your dreams, but don’t want to be over the top. You want to look fabulous, but don’t want to come across as someone else. Whether it’s with someone you met through a friend or Tinder, choosing your outfit communicates a lot about you. It takes just under seven seconds for someone to form a first impression. In other words, someone will decide who they think you are pretty quickly based on what you’re wearing. Here’s our advice to help you nail your first date.
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The Credit Card Dance

We live in a modern society where women are equals in both the workplace and the relationship. Women are more independent than ever and have obtained more and more leadership positions in the corporate world. But many argue that, because of this, chivalry has died. The first date is always awkward—you eat and talk and it’s perfectly wonderful. And then the check comes…and you basically stare at each other trying to figure out your next move. Whitney Cummings, a Comedy Central comedian jokes that she does the awkward purse dig: she dips her hand into her purse, “searching” intently for her wallet until her date puts his card on the tray. It’s a move women admittedly use but it doesn’t negate that awkward moment! So I have written a list of factors to determine who should pay!
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Going On A First Date

Good etiquettes, especially on a first date, can take men a long way, potentially away from the land of social awkwardness. The truth is that women love men who have grace and manners but still manage to be strong. Men who have a good grip on etiquette are strong men who know how they should treat a women, and they treat them right. The thing that men should never forget is that they should always try to be as natural and smooth as possible, rather than being awkward and staged.
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The Infamous Group of Three

There is always this theory that every attractive female has a chubby friend, an ugly friend, or both. In movies we see this group of three girls going out to the bar. One is gorgeous and all the guys want her, one is overweight, and one is downright ugly. As for guy groups, there is always the loud obnoxious over the top one, the “Rico-suave” smooth talker, and the awkward shy one against the wall playing Tetris on his flip phone. In media these stereotypes are played up to the extreme leaving some to think that this odd combination of people truly exists. Well it does, to some degree.  
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Is Money Really "The Root of All Evil?"

It has been said and quoted from the Bible that “money is the root of all kinds of evil.” Even if you are not a religious person, you have probably still heard this saying/ quote at one time or another. Is it true? Does obtaining large amounts of money really lead people to become evil, or is it just a myth?  
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Are Smartphones Ruining our Relationships?

Think about it. Majority of people in the present day have phones that basically do everything for them: Internet, email, music, and an endless variety of apps. We probably spend more time using up our “unlimited” data than we do interacting with our family and friends in person. The worse thing about it is I don’t think we realize just how much we let our phones run our lives.
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How to Flirt With Me

At this point in my few months writing for VIP Club Scene, I have written about a wide range of topics from UFC fights to reviews on nightclubs to gambling addictions. Today I want to take a more personal approach. I find it easier to write about things that happen in my life, and to share stories of personal experiences. With that being said I am going to tell you, guys, how to flirt with me. Okay, not to get too ahead of ourselves, I won’t be giving my number out at the end of this blog, but I want to share what works and doesn’t work when it comes to flirting with a girl.
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The Walk of Shame in Style

People that have truly lived the nightlife have walked “The walk of shame” once in their lifetime, and some more walks than others. Once you have walked it’s a lesson learned to never do it twice for the wiser. I can assure you it probably wasn’t planned to walk out the next morning in your club attire but it happens to the best of us right? Wrong! What seemed like a hot outfit the night before can look pretty skanky in broad daylight. The best of us are one step ahead of their game and prepare for their night’s adventures. To avoid feeling naked or humiliated keep these simple rules in mind when shopping for a dress and pack these essentials in your clutch.
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Looking For Love In The Club...?

It's a mistake most tend to make and I hate to say it but it’s usually females who walk in a club hoping to find their Mr. Right. Sorry to break it to you but must likely you’re only going to find Mr. Right Now.  Guys are only looking to see who they can take home at the end of the night and if he does get you’re number it’s only for a future booty call.
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Love at first sight is a romantic idea we're all familiar with. Some adamantly believe in it and others call those who do hopelessly romantic. In defense of the idea, I can tell you that my Mother believes. She first saw my Dad at a dance and was immediately smitten. Although they didn't meet again for years, they're still married to this day and happily at that. As for myself, my first love that lasted years, full of tempestuousness and heartache, all started when we locked eyes on each other. As they say, the rest was history.
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